When parents separate, they will try to agree arrangements for their children between themselves. If they are unable to agree on a plan, they may attend mediation, and eventually court, as they work towards establishing a fixed timetable for a child’s time.
When parents of a neurodiverse child separate, it can present greater challenges. The child may need a very settled routine or dislike transitions. If their parents are now living in two homes, this presents a completely new way of life for the child. It may therefore not be a realistic option to expect that child to swiftly adjust to regular transitions between two homes. These changes require careful planning. If one parent is expecting change at a greater rate than the child is able to offer, it can result in acrimony between the parents. It may lead to accusations that one parent is alienating the child against the other parent, and handover times can become fraught.
These types of issues can occur in all separations, but a neurodiverse child may be particularly vulnerable in these circumstances.
Children may be asked when their parents separate about their views about the family arrangements. If court proceedings are underway, a CAFCASS professional may meet with the child at school, without either parent present, to discuss the situation with them. CAFCASS’ role is provide an independent view to the judge about their views as to the best options for a child, making recommendations as to how a child’s time should be shared between their parents’ homes. A child with autism may have particular communication needs, which can make a meeting with a new adult more challenging.
Our role as solicitors specialising in this area is to ensure that these types of issues are avoided, by working with you from separation to identify your preferred routine for your child and advising you how to achieve the outcome which meets your child’s needs.
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